Sorry it took me this long to get over here. ((( HUGS ))) Uhsir. Ya that was a tough week all around.
VT also affected me especially since I have 3 daughters in university. I know I will never understand why it happened. And stopping it happening again is almost impossible. So I pray and have faith that if ever someone is in the same state as this young man, that someone will see it and give him a hug and a lot of help.
Hang in there Uhsir, 18 months is not that far away.